Monday, December 14, 2009

The JOCELYN system

Not quite as clever as the producers of It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (D.E.N.N.I.S. system) so it doesn't actually stand for anything, but it's still somewhat of a method.

Extremely straight forward:
1. If you like someone, be obvious, don't have to tell them but actions speak much louder than words.
2. If their response is positive if should be obvious so then go for it. If negative, forget about it and move on.

That is the way to do it.
Oh, and don't "lead" someone on if you know they like you but you don't like them. It just makes it more painful for them and then you're just taking advantage of them. I don't wanna hear the whole, "I'm too nice" or "I didn't know he/she liked me" excuses. If you want to stay friends with them, make it clear, otherwise you have to cut it off and not lead them on.

Just because I like you, it doesn't mean I want a relationship with you.

And another thing, friendship goes before infatuation

These are the rules I am going by right now, we'll see how it goes.

So far it feels like...the list of things of what I don't want in a guy just gets bigger and bigger. That may be bad news, reducing my pool options in size very quickly.

Hehe! Oh well, I am having a great time, isn't that all that matters?!

6 comments:

  1. I will give your name a thought and make it an acronym :)

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  2. I like it!
    J- Just because I like you, it doesn't mean I want a relationship with you.
    O- Obvious-ness
    C-
    E-
    L- Learn what you want
    Y-
    N- No excuses

    lol, not really
    fill in the rest Nelly!

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  3. hahahahah thanks kelly! I absolutely love it, great start!

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  4. J - Just because I like you, doesn't mean I want a relationship with you
    O - Obvious-ness
    C- can this potentially make me happy in the long run
    E - expectations must be met
    L - Learn what you want
    Y - yes you are hot but are you an intellectual
    N- No Excuses

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  5. hahhaha oh yeah, that's right girls! live by the JOCELYN system

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  6. haha. yay for the JOCELYN System!!

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