We love the chase but we hate the games.
Reading between the lines too much will get you in trouble...it tends to lead to selective thinking.
In the end we just want to find someone, but let's not get carried away and forget how much fun the process is.
As an aggressive individual in pursuing what I want I find it difficult to play "hard-to-get". In every other aspect of life, being proactive has always been the way get things my way. This is highly conflicting with "you want what you can't have", if I act readily available to someone then would that make them not want it? Maybe it just depends on the situation. I don't want to play mind games, I just want to be able to act on my feelings...isn't that what guys do? Would that make me less desirable to someone if I am obvious about my feeling towards them? I would much rather just get rejected right away than waste time and get rejected later. In conclusion, I feel like it's much less complicated to act like a guy, say and act what's on your mind and stop trying to reading between the lines and predict what the other person is thinking. If they want it too, they'll act upon it, don't lose your head over it!
isn't it crazy how relationships work! all we could really do is tell them by our actions b/c that sometimes is louder than words
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